Another week just passed , It was a very hard week but I am very thankful to have the whole team’s support. It was hard before and I know it’s just going to get worse in the coming days. But I believe in this Team. I will only step out of this team with two reasons, One … if I feel that I have given them everything they would need and they no longer need my services, and the other one is… if I feel that I really have to move on either it be career advancement or other opportunities outside of the company. But Never the less, I am very happy with this team.
In a Team there will come a time of people clashing due to personality differences , but I need to work on that and as a team we need to work around that if not through it. Sometimes it’s hard to adapt to everyone but I should always have a clear mind to understand them and I never , ever take sides. I try to see the situation on a third party, to be able to make a possible solution to it in the best interest of everyone and for the team most especially.
With the role I am in right now as a Team Leader this had opened my eyes to a much more broader prospective of people, personalities, ideas , and in Life as a whole. I have seen a lot of things and heard stuff that would envy anyone. But I am not about to talk , I know how to keep my mouth shut and not to divulge anything that I may know off. I would say I am very observant of the people around me, I do not mix personal with my profession. And never do I take long time grudges with ones I quarrel with. I am but human and sometimes snap when I am pressured and I also get mad. But easily forgive and forget.
But with these things that I constantly learn a lot of in life through other people. Like what I mentioned with my last blog, I love to listen and talk that not only brings up the possibility of knowing the person but also by learning what knowledge they may hold, Lessons they have learned and points that could be adaptable to how I live my life. Right now I enjoy every moment, and I always try to live life with a smile.
Live my life happily as I could and be content with what I have and work for what I need less of what I want. I would be classified as a semi-practical person. I do go out once in a while but I do not want to be habitual, that is my way of rewarding my self of simple things and giving my self a gift of relaxation and other things. Like going for some coffee in Tagaytay while I enjoy the view of the Volcano, I enjoy the gift that god has given and that is nature that relaxes me. Eating is one of my guilty pleasures, Love eating. But I also go to the gym to stay fit enough and not overweight. Don’t buy clothes that much just buy what I need. For the house I spend and budget tightly to cover all expenses and have some savings also.
But the one thing I really love to do and often times makes me relax easily is to listen to music…. I love listening to music, when I’m at work, eating, playing basketball even when I go to sleep I would go crazy without music. It’s a way to relax me and express my inner feelings and relieve my stressed mind. I love acoustic music, RNB, songs that have great lyrics and melody to soothe the mind. Don’t you agree?
Love life… Still single… Single by Choice is more like it. I prefer this cause you can do almost anything but I never fool around when it comes to love. I know I am not the best looking guy, But I really do not have that feeling of courting anyone right now. I do have a person I adore but it didn’t go too well when I tried to open up with her. Right there I realized that I am not ready, and is not that appealing to the opposite sex. Back when I got her response about not feeling the same way I did for her I felt really down and started to think if there’s something about me that is not like able. I asked a lot of people about their opinions about me. Some would say I am just too much of a” Good Boy ” that seems to be too good to be true. Which I thought of for quite some time and realized that with my past relationship I always tried to fulfill anything that my X would want me to do. I lost my personality in that manner, my views in life was clouded by her decisions and my ways was turned into something I needed to change. Maybe that’s why I am like this.
But ofcourse I learned to overcome that point when I got turned down by this girl I have a crush on right now. I admit I like her but I have no more plans of courting anytime soon. I am not in the process of going into a relationship also, but I am not closing the door, it’s just that I will welcome them but they could not get the reaction that they might be expecting.
I rarely fall for anyone, but when I do fall for someone, that someone has something very special that I see in them that I really adore. I don’t go for looks. But it would help if a girl looks neat and presentable. When I fall for someone it is true love and I never go for flings. To sight examples I had a 3 year crush on a elementary schoolmate , after was a 6 year crush on a high school girl and last was a 10 year relationship with my first and only girlfriend. I would say that I am an old school type of guy when it comes to loving, you can just imagine how serious I am when I fall in love. And when I love you, I am willing to give you the world just to prove it. I am prepared to share the happiness of my life with my love one…
I am happy right now like I said I’m not in a rush for anything. I am not in a race with time. Take things easy, one day at a time, take things as they come along and never expect but rather be contented with what I may have.
God would only know who, when and how I will end up in this life. He had given me the time to enjoy the gifts he provided and I plan to spend this life that he gave with him in me, with my life full of happiness and wonderful things. That I share with all my friends, colleagues and loved ones.
Enjoy life with the best of intentions and with a content heart and mind.
In a Team there will come a time of people clashing due to personality differences , but I need to work on that and as a team we need to work around that if not through it. Sometimes it’s hard to adapt to everyone but I should always have a clear mind to understand them and I never , ever take sides. I try to see the situation on a third party, to be able to make a possible solution to it in the best interest of everyone and for the team most especially.
With the role I am in right now as a Team Leader this had opened my eyes to a much more broader prospective of people, personalities, ideas , and in Life as a whole. I have seen a lot of things and heard stuff that would envy anyone. But I am not about to talk , I know how to keep my mouth shut and not to divulge anything that I may know off. I would say I am very observant of the people around me, I do not mix personal with my profession. And never do I take long time grudges with ones I quarrel with. I am but human and sometimes snap when I am pressured and I also get mad. But easily forgive and forget.
But with these things that I constantly learn a lot of in life through other people. Like what I mentioned with my last blog, I love to listen and talk that not only brings up the possibility of knowing the person but also by learning what knowledge they may hold, Lessons they have learned and points that could be adaptable to how I live my life. Right now I enjoy every moment, and I always try to live life with a smile.
Live my life happily as I could and be content with what I have and work for what I need less of what I want. I would be classified as a semi-practical person. I do go out once in a while but I do not want to be habitual, that is my way of rewarding my self of simple things and giving my self a gift of relaxation and other things. Like going for some coffee in Tagaytay while I enjoy the view of the Volcano, I enjoy the gift that god has given and that is nature that relaxes me. Eating is one of my guilty pleasures, Love eating. But I also go to the gym to stay fit enough and not overweight. Don’t buy clothes that much just buy what I need. For the house I spend and budget tightly to cover all expenses and have some savings also.
But the one thing I really love to do and often times makes me relax easily is to listen to music…. I love listening to music, when I’m at work, eating, playing basketball even when I go to sleep I would go crazy without music. It’s a way to relax me and express my inner feelings and relieve my stressed mind. I love acoustic music, RNB, songs that have great lyrics and melody to soothe the mind. Don’t you agree?
Love life… Still single… Single by Choice is more like it. I prefer this cause you can do almost anything but I never fool around when it comes to love. I know I am not the best looking guy, But I really do not have that feeling of courting anyone right now. I do have a person I adore but it didn’t go too well when I tried to open up with her. Right there I realized that I am not ready, and is not that appealing to the opposite sex. Back when I got her response about not feeling the same way I did for her I felt really down and started to think if there’s something about me that is not like able. I asked a lot of people about their opinions about me. Some would say I am just too much of a” Good Boy ” that seems to be too good to be true. Which I thought of for quite some time and realized that with my past relationship I always tried to fulfill anything that my X would want me to do. I lost my personality in that manner, my views in life was clouded by her decisions and my ways was turned into something I needed to change. Maybe that’s why I am like this.
But ofcourse I learned to overcome that point when I got turned down by this girl I have a crush on right now. I admit I like her but I have no more plans of courting anytime soon. I am not in the process of going into a relationship also, but I am not closing the door, it’s just that I will welcome them but they could not get the reaction that they might be expecting.
I rarely fall for anyone, but when I do fall for someone, that someone has something very special that I see in them that I really adore. I don’t go for looks. But it would help if a girl looks neat and presentable. When I fall for someone it is true love and I never go for flings. To sight examples I had a 3 year crush on a elementary schoolmate , after was a 6 year crush on a high school girl and last was a 10 year relationship with my first and only girlfriend. I would say that I am an old school type of guy when it comes to loving, you can just imagine how serious I am when I fall in love. And when I love you, I am willing to give you the world just to prove it. I am prepared to share the happiness of my life with my love one…
I am happy right now like I said I’m not in a rush for anything. I am not in a race with time. Take things easy, one day at a time, take things as they come along and never expect but rather be contented with what I may have.
God would only know who, when and how I will end up in this life. He had given me the time to enjoy the gifts he provided and I plan to spend this life that he gave with him in me, with my life full of happiness and wonderful things. That I share with all my friends, colleagues and loved ones.
Enjoy life with the best of intentions and with a content heart and mind.
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