When people feel something special for someone, they do the oddest things and never bother if it's right or wrong. Even if the person that they love, loves someone else and them stuck to being a friend. A friend that stands next to them patiently waiting to help, listen, and care for the one they love, doing those things and still not complicating the friendship. Watching over them ready to lend a hand anytime.
Even as a friend they get inspired and finds simple joy when with the person they love. Talking, having coffee, lunch or a simple dinner can all mean so many wonderful things for them. All these with limitations and the mere fact at the back of their mind that they can never tell what they feel because it could complicate things in where they find happiness in.
So amidst the troubled feeling, the anxiety of telling how they feel for the one they love, they need to keep it not to ruin what they have now. Some would go and directly speak of how they feel and end up in a ruining not only the friendship but leaving them in a dismay. But others succeed but ratio has it at 2 out of 10.
Would you stay put as a friend standing by for someone you can never tell your true feelings tot them.
Or someone that would clear it out and speak what they feel and never think of the possible negative out come. Gambling on the situation in loosing both a friend and a loved one and but in the same instance could also end up in a positive note.
WELL..ID RATHER LET MYSELF SUFFER THAN LOSING THE FRIENDSHIP THAT I AM HAVING..THEREs A FEAR ..A FEAR OF THE MIGHT-BE-CONSEQUENCES.
ReplyDeleteIT HAPPENED TO ME..BUT ITS A DIFFERENT STORY. ITs TOTALLY DIFFERENT! ITs A MESSED and A WHIRLWIND STORY ACTUALLY!! HAHAHA..BUT WE'RE OK NOW...WE'RE STILL SEEING EACH OTHER. TIPONG...''STEADY'' LANG...=)
and IT NEVER HAPPENED THAT IM THE ONE WHO CONFESSED..BUT THERE ARE THOSE WHO CONFESSED(awwwww!HEHEHE)..DANG CHEESY! AND AWKWARD NA AFTERALL..LAHAT NG GALAW NYA MISCONSTRUED NA..MAY MALICE NA..DANG PANGET! ;)
Di naman masama mag take ng risk kung mahal mo naman talaga ang friend mo... un nga lang di lahat positive ang result...but mas okay parin kung sabihin ang feeling kaysa i keep mo sya forever...pano kung too late na ng malaman mo na same pala kayo ng feelings????? and di na pwede maging kayo????? how sad :(
ReplyDeleteKung talagang friend nyo ang isa't isa mag confess man sya tungkol sa feelings nya siguro naman maiintidihan nya sa una medyo nakakailang pero kung alam naman nya ung stand mo sa buhay nya i-aaccept mo un dahil friend mo sya...
have a nice day!
----kaye :)----